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"Support for us and our daughter"

About: Shropshire, Telford & Wrekin Adult Mental Health / Early Intervention Team (Shropshire Telford & Wrekin)

(as a parent/guardian),

Our daughter was hospitalised for two longs spells between January and August, often under Section. She had delusions and accused her father and I, along with others, of doing dreadful things to her when she was an infant. For much of the time she would have nothing to do with us and would not give permission for us to be informed about her medical condition. For a number of weeks she was at large, homeless and we knew not where. Eventually she was picked up and returned to hospital following a spending spree and it was perhaps the spending spree that at last facilitated her bipolar diagnosis. With tweaking of medication she began to get better and has been steadily progressing since then. She now has a new home and has 50% care of her boys, the rebuilding of her relationships with them is very encouraging.

The months of her illness were very dreadful for us all. Helplessness was perhaps the worst of it. We had a number of times to face the possibility that she might be lost to us through death or total alienation.

Our daughter had a number of presenting problems and we were not surprised that a diagnosis took a long time. However when it came it made sense to us all and also to our daughter. I would say that her father and I have a better relationship with her now than we have had since she was about ten.

We are so grateful for the diagnosis and her subsequent improvement; also for the considerable and continuing support that she has received from Shewsbury mental health services.

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Response from Adele Serin-Flanagan, Midlands Partnership University NHS Foundation Trust 3 days ago
Adele Serin-Flanagan
Midlands Partnership University NHS Foundation Trust
Submitted on 20/03/2026 at 13:35
Published on Care Opinion at 13:39


Hi, my name is Adele, I am one of the leads in the Early Intervention Team in Shropshire. I would like to say a huge thank you for sharing what was clearly a frightening and difficult time for you all as a family. It must have been hard reflecting on what has passed and how this was for you all at the time, so again, thank you. Its fantastic to hear how positive receiving a diagnosis can be and how much this has changed and improved your family relationships. It shows how helpful it is to understand what you are facing and how that can mean you are able to face it together armed with knowledge.

When someone you know and love starts to become unwell, you can see them change and become almost unrecognisable and this can be very painful and confusing. Your account details your own experience of this very clearly and honestly and for that we thank you. It can be especially hard when the person you love is saying things that are distressing because they are not well. I can only imagine how this must have felt for you all. It must have also been really worrying not knowing where your daughter was at times when she was very unwell.

When we are trying to understand what is happening for someone when they are not well, we know how important it is that we get things right, and this can sometimes mean that we need to gain a full picture over time to ensure that any diagnosis is as accurate as it can be. In Early Intervention we are aware that this is often the first time someone has come into contact with mental health services, and we know how vital it is to get something as important as diagnosis right. We are grateful for your patience with this process.

It is truly wonderful to hear a story of a family now thriving following the recovery of a loved one. Thank you so much again for sharing your experience of being cared for and supported by our service and the services that we work alongside. I will ensure that this feedback is shared with the wider team.

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